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all theatrics and no modeling
James Abraham Frost
- Born in a small town in Northern California on March 12th, 1983. He grew up in the town of Napa, also known as Wine Country. His parents were very well off and he had been surrounded by the rich country lifestyle that surrounded Napa. He frequented other surrounding cities, mostly spending time in San Francisco whenever possible to explore the sights. He'd also go to smaller towns and cities to keep himself entertained. As soon as he got his license and a car he was never home. He got his license the day he turned sixteen.
- His dad’s name is Paul Anthony Frost and his mother’s name is Maria Louise Frost. They got married June 2nd 1981 in Sacramento, California. Their marriage had been rocky from the start, but after a few years of trying to figure it out they finally came to a loving conclusion in life, at least for a while. Though they showed James that love can survive for a while, they ended up a messy divorce near the end of his teen years.
- He refuses to admit that his middle name is Abraham and in most cases will deny having a middle name period. He thinks that everyone will call him Abraham Lincoln; though it’s not a terrible reference it still comes off as such a random name to him. He was named after a good friend of his father’s that he never met.
- Parents moved to New Jersey when James was 17 years old, just before his senior year of high school. His dad had gotten a job that trekked his family across the country, though the lifestyle was slightly more expensive, the job also paid a lot more than the one in Napa. James found it very discouraging to move right before the last year of high school – he was never good at being the new kid. Though if they'd never moved he might not have become the social butterfly he is today.
- Brought up to be very straight edge, no drugs, no alcohol and no sex until marriage. It wasn’t really a religious belief, more so safe beliefs that nothing could or would ever go wrong if you continued a lifestyle that was completely ‘innocent’. This also included his sexual behavior, he was brought up to love women and not have a remotely sinful thought of men.
- During his senior year of high school he met a girl named Melanie who changed his life in more ways than one. He was the new kid in school, very awkward and quiet in his own body. She brought the best and worst out of him. He had been a straight A student all through his high school and previous years classes. Upon meeting this girl his grades began to slip, he stayed out late, he was out in Jersey at all hours of the night. He managed to keep an "ok" grade point average, but it wasn't at all what he was capable of.
- Good or bad, Melanie brought out the side of him he’d never known before. He found himself within this girl. He figured the confident side of himself. She shortly after became his first love and first heartbreak. She broke up with him via text message, and transferred schools. He didn’t know what he did or if he had done anything, but the breakup had been extremely abrupt and very personal.
- His parents separated the day after his graduation. This struck him harder than anything in his life. His parents were "perfect" to him, and their breakup came as a complete shock. His mother chose to blame him for everything that went wrong. Because of that he chose to live with his father and little brother. His mother had it stuck in her mind that James was the reason for the separation given his change in behavior. She took no responsibility in the failed marriage, but found it very easy to pass blame on James. It had only been a few months since they'd moved, but his world changed faster than one could imagine.
- With the breakup of his parents and his own, he vowed to never enter into a relationship again. Though he secretly wants one, he refuses to do anything more than have friends, or sexual partners. After seeing a happy marriage turn into shit, and a girl leave him for no reason he figured that’s exactly how everything ended. Poorly. A sad decision for him to make, but it was better than the alternative of getting so hurt. He didn't deal with pain very well.
- At the age of nineteen he found himself attracted to a professor at the college he’d began attending. The professor was male and though it was definitely a secret for many reasons, their affair was extremely passionate. This became the point in James’ life where he broke all the rules, rebelled from his raising and did whatever he wanted whether it involved alcohol or sex. He wanted to live a different life than he’d been leading. His so called perfect life was a crock of shit, so why not go the other way?
- His mother confronted him about his sexuality at his 20th birthday where she felt it necessary to call him a “fag” and stormed out. Since then she has more or less warmed up to the idea that her son has feelings for men, but will probably never completely accept it. They're in a better place with their relationship, for now, though there's still hard feelings and tension.
- Though he had a hard time concentrating after the affair ended, it made him more determined to graduate college with some sort of merit.
- As a graduated business major, he accepted a job as an assistant to a club owner. He eventually would like to have his own business, though not sure of what kind of business he would want to get into. Most of his job is a lot of paperwork or grunt work, he learns a lot about how a successful business should be ran. He’s enriching his experiences by being apart of a well-run club. He admires the person he works for, and is very loyal to them. It’s almost a loyalty that makes him not want to further his life just so he could be successful with the owner.
- Happens to think that dating is a huge waste of time because people are always extremely fake until they get to see the terrible sides of each other then it becomes real. He would rather see the bad side in a person than the good side first.
- Has a small obsession with collecting very random pieces of art. His entire apartment is filled with very random pieces of art.
- Now going on twenty-five years old, he moved out of his dad’s apartment and into his own place. It’s not a dream apartment, but it’s his. It was his goal to have his own place by the time he was twenty-five years old. He lives his life with goals, whether he achieves them or not is a whole other story.
- Can and will talk to anyone; also can make anyone talk to him. He is a huge people person, very charming and can get the grumpiest of people smiling. It's his own special little gift in life.
- His next goal is to either take partnership with someone in the business field or own his own restaurant or wherever his life takes him within the next five years. Maybe to get over some old fears and have new accomplishments he's never had before.
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